Saturday 30 January 2016

4 weddings and a funeral


Tents plunked everywhere ...

It’s Sunday afternoon and we’re still bursting with joy.  Voleak and I spent the best part of the weekend in Phnom Penh’s charming chaos with 2 bubbly Khmer technicians to finalize the ‘technical’ details of our project before it's printed.   As per usual, plowing through the traffic in PP, Kevin compared it to the reversal of the *Tonlé Sap analogy; where some streets are blocked with congested motorists, with monstrous ‘lexus’  cars, motorbikes, cyclists, tuk tuks, manually pulled two wheel wagons, you name it and the clogged traffic is stationary.    Resembling the Tonlé Sap River’s high water volume, once the plug is eventually pulled out, the water flow is released, in the same way that the traffic flow is released when the light turns green and motorists are back in motion.    And , for the more adventurous motorists, some with whistles at that to make a statement,  who dare to charge forward, on side walks and alike, with some maneuvering here and there, can ‘sketchily’ bypass the slow moving traffic :)

The month of January was very busy indeed, excitingly busy filled with a constellation of this and that …

In early January we celebrated the opening of Callum’s new restaurant and relished an abundance of food, drinks for a mere $2.00.   It is now cassava season and cassava trucks, excessively jam-packed, with heavy bags of cassava,  are  now being shipped to Vietnam.    On our way to Phnom Penh, one of the cassava trucks toppled to its side on the winding highland road because it was overloaded with cassava; luckily no one was hurt.   ‘Tis also passion and mango fruit season and, there’s ample fruit to be had - yummy!  Talking about yummy food, our community down below is still alive and well, and they (landlord/landlady) continue to bring us food to our apartment; likewise we have done the same.   Next door, the communal family (siblings, husband and wife with baby) has also hopped on the bandwagon to share their meal with us.  One of them had prepared a special coconut desert with fruit and some type of bean  that we did not recognize, and, because of the language barrier we were unable to decipher what it was.

It’s been a month where weddings are now in full swing with a number tents and loudspeakers plunked in the middle of roads everywhere in town, blocking and redirecting traffic on the opposite direction.  The loudspeakers of course  is set up high up either on trees or tent tops for everyone to hear the pounding 'loud' music and to take part in this unique experience or shall I say, a special occasion? :)   Equally special, wedding invitations are forever beautifully adorned in colourful Khmer glitter letters wrapped with ribbons, sequences; typically a reflection of the bride and groom’s attire.  And yes; we were invited yet to 4 more weddings and this time we attended them all.  Around that same period, we visited with Robin, a former Cuso/VSO volunteer who told us that weddings in many parts of the world, are usually communal affairs,  where anyone and everyone is invited.  We also went to a 100-day funeral where mourners brought offering for their deceased relative.   It’s been  officially confirmed that the police can now pull anyone to the side of the road, can pull any vehicle to the side of the road, charge them a fee and keep 70% of the profit :)  

January was a month where we had the Annual Congress Conference at the education complex to review the progresses made over the school year, address the challenges - the concerns and the next steps.    Over the month, we  also did a number of follow-up visits in the village schools where roads have now turned to powdery red and tricky to ride on.

We now have a new visitor within our midst. Kermit the ‘champagne’ frog hides in the toilet tank with his head stuck out  by day to keep cool, and by night, he reveals himself on the bathroom wall :)

On that delightful note, we wish you happy reading, lots of laughter and a safe, wonderful, exciting February!

More later …. :)

*‘The annual fluctuation of the Mekong’s water volume, as a result of the monsoon ,causes the unique flow of the reversal of the Tonlé Sap River.’

Sunday 3 January 2016

Happy 2016

- listen to your heart sing   
Birds singing, orchestrating the background hums of roosters crowing at the break of dawn to ring the New Year in.  We noticed on this fine morning, that the avocado tree  facing our Verenda is flowering for the first time in three years, since we’ve been here . What a beautiful start of the morning, a start of the New Year.  

Yes, we thought long and hard about our wish for all you this year.  Together with good health and happiness, we've added an extra hope for 2016,  another wish for you to experience something extra and wonderful: friendship, a skill that captures your imagination, a job that offers fulfillment, and, of course, new things in your life that will make your heart sing.

On our arrival to our usual guesthouse in Phnom Penh, we were greeted by a number of jovial Tuk Tuk drivers whom we use regularly to go about our daily ins and outs, meetings and so forth … ‘Papa – Happy New Year – Swaseday Ch’nam Tmey!’  they shouted in a chorus.   Some shook our hands, others gave us a hug and a pat on the back.   Whilst we were in PP, we also went to Hans’ place for dinner to join his new baby  and Cambodian partner.  He had prepared a special Dutch hors d'oeuvre composed of anise and sweet crackers; typically to mark the New Year in Holland.   We first met Hans in MDK working on a Science project with VSO.  Hans had worked for VSO off and on for the past 12 years and now is presently coordinating  a Science project in 10 high schools throughout Cambodia.

Along with the same theme, in the New Year, we ran into Yves who was in the midst of doing a visa run when we saw him.  Yves was one of the former Cuso/VSO Volunteers in MDK with us, and is now doing a short term volunteer contract for Cuso International in Myanmar.

On our return from our conference in Phnom Penh, we were saddened to find that the garden lady’s vegetable plot was recently replaced with a shabby saffron road overlooking the surrounding lake.  Is this progress in the name of 'future' tourism?    There’s even a set of wooden chalets that’s been speedily erected within the vicinity, as I speak.

On a more upbeat note, don't forget to do something special you've been longing to do. Then ... listen to your heart sing.

More  later ... :)