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| Sophek preparing a meal for her family |
This morning I paid a visit to Sopheak’s
house. Sopheak was my Khmer 101 language
teacher when we first arrived here in Mondolkiri and, who came highly
recommended by other VSO volunteers. However,
I stopped taking lessons from her because I increasingly became busy with my
work and, I felt, at that time, that I wasn’t progressing much with my
Khmer 101 lessons. More to the point, I wasn’t putting
it into practice!
Since I last saw her, last March 2014,
Sopheak had called me several times for a visit, for dinner and to think about
taking Khmer lessons with her again.
Guilt began to creep in, I hadn’t seen her for almost a year and so I
thought it was time for a visit.
Of course, as per usual we were overjoyed
to see each other and, Sopheak as always, greeted me with a cup of tea. Her smiley 4-year-old son Leidai had grown
considerably. While Sopheak and I talked,
Leidai was testing his new bow and arrow that his father had recently made for
him. He ran around the garden and in the two
chicken compounds shooting his blunt arrow at banana trees and at anything that moved,
until his mother suggested to practice his archery skills elsewhere. Leidai soon gave the idea up and joined us
in our conversation.
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| Ph'nong children walking to the market to sell their produce |
Tea in hand, and Leidai leaning against his
mother, Sopheak told me that she was busy everyday with the avocado season, and, weekends
were no exception. She began her day at daybreak, at 5 in the
morning to buy avocados from the Pn’óng farmers who traveled every morning on
foot, approximately 25 kilometers to the Ph’nong market . At the end of each week, Sophek loaded her
avocados in large crates for shipment to Phnom Penh and to Vietnam, evidently selling
them for a higher fee than she had originally bought them for. Though,
aware of high competition with other vendors, Sophek emphasized the importance
of supporting the Ph’nong people and, if they were times the buying was poor it
didn’t matter to her, as long as the Ph’nong people were paid a small
commission for their hard day’s work.
Onward and upward with her day, typically by
the time Sopheak arrived home from the market, her husband Sophal, her 15 year old daughter
Lyn and her son Leidai awoke to her call for breakfast. When Sophal left for work and Lynn for
school, Sopheak spent her morning home schooling Leidai.
During my visit with her, bright and early that
crispy Saturday morning, Sopheak proudly showed me around her 'organic' vegetable garden,
her passion fruit vines hanging abundantly on her trellis, her strawberry patch, her chickens who shared
their space with turkeys and, her pigeons on the hill,
some protecting their young. She
also pointed to the eggs that were sat on day and night for 21 days by mother hen and,
to her chicks that were pecking the ground searching for bugs, Leida remarked .
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| Pumping water from the well |
Next, she excitedly pointed to her new
house standing high on the hill, in the sunlight that was under construction. Her present house metres away from her new one was being demolished for the
wood, for the building materials that Sophal planned to use for his new (two-storey high) house. Sophek announced that she couldn’t wait to
move in, mostly for the view. However, it maybe awhile before it’s completed,
because her husband only had weekends to work on the house.
While we continued touring the garden,
Sopheak and Leidai watered the plants while sampling 'unripe' strawberries along the way. They also, fed the chickens with ‘home made ‘rice
meal mixed with water. Sophek made a point of telling me that
her chickens were free range and well fed. However, they were unusually smaller than the chickens at the market because her chickens were not injected with hormones.
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| Fresh eggs |
As I was about to leave, escorting me to the (light weight) bamboo gate, Sopheak gave me a bag of
fresh eggs and declared that her eggs were rich in texture: the yolks were a deep
orange, they were tastier and meatier than the eggs from the market. We hugged, and I promised that I’d visit her
and her family a little more often; clearly to chat, to pick up more Khmer from her and to
taste her delicious cooking. Oh yes, we had already made plans to attend a mutual friend's wedding together the following weekend.
Since I last
saw Sopheak, her avocado, her vegetable-fruit garden and poultry business had expanded. Aside from her ongoing avocado enterprise, more people were
buying from her, especially her eggs and passion fruit.
Sophal,
with his perfect English was now manager of an NGO. In fact, the whole family spoke ‘impeccable’
English. Lyn was doing much better at
school as a result of receiving private lessons. Leida
was enjoying home schooling and undivided time with his mother. Though this is only a small window of the
life of Sophek, all in all she seemed happy to do as she pleased in a now ‘free’ nation, where people were left alone for the first time, in more than a decade.
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